like literally what is the downside of having transness become a popular experience? too many people to relate to and form meaningful and lasting friendships with? some people experiment with their identities and have a new perspective on trans people and ultimately decide it’s not for them? expensive gender-related items becoming more affordable and easier to buy irl? the world becoming a better and less hostile environment towards trans people? fucking lol at ur whining tbqh

While evolutionary psychology suggests that women pass on casual sex due to an inherent lack of sexual desire, Conley says there’s an entirely different reason. She posits that women say “thanks, but no thanks” for fear of being judged. She also says that women have serious reservations about whether a one-night stand would be enjoyable with a new partner. She tries to explain to men, “The reason women are turning you down for casual sex seems to be that, for one thing, a lot of you are calling them sluts afterward.” Also, “A lot of you aren’t bothering to try to be good in bed.” Preach.